Judy,
I do think that this is a very caring & wonderful group of people. These awesome people went out of their way after working all day & week, helping others after their own jobs are done, having to deal with their own personal lives, and raising money to help others like you. I saw nothing *gossipy* about their report. Just facts. They put their lives in danger coming into situations like yours. Instead of even being grateful after all that happened, you want to get angry at them. They are angels because I sure would be angry at you for causing them expenses, putting them at risk of being injured & wasting their valuable time for nothing. You should be made to pay for all of their expenses. If your children are terrified, then shame on you for putting them through this situation. I pray that God blesses & protects them. There are real individuals out there that really do need help with REAL situations, & you only take away from the greater good that they're trying to offer the public. You should be apologizing to them. Maybe when you can do that then you can move one step closer to getting rid of the demons in your life.